Failure is such a misunderstood concept. The most successful people on this planet have failed tremendously multiple times, they just don’t focus too long on that. Gary Vee encourages young people to fuck up on purpose as he says so people have no high expectations from you anymore and there the only way is up from there. Failure is just a stepping stone towards success, it is a lesson. However, we need to be able to see it from that perspective rather than feeling ashamed of the event and continue to beat the drum of what had happened and how terrible that was. Who cares after all? Nobody cares! Having compassion for ourselves and forgiving ourselves for our mistakes is a form of self-love.